Dealing with life.

I have found that we all handle situations differently.  Not really a surprise to me, but I have to constantly remind myself this.  I've also noticed that if you try and kill your self to keep total peace you will end up physically sick.  Strife has to happen.  Its talked about in all religions.  It's talked about in all cultures.  If you study, whenever a problem arises the people are faced with two ways of handling it.  Divide and crush the community or bind together and strengthen the community. 

There are many sayings like, "the stronger you leave the tea bag in hot water the stronger the tea gets." and "when you put and egg and a potato in hot water the egg will get hard and the potato will get soft."  It's all in how you let the situation effect your life.

Now there are times where you have to temporarily remove your self from the situation.  To ground yourself and either prepare for battle or prepare for peace.  Either way it's a time where the focus is on you.  Gather your thoughts.  Evaluate the situation.  Try your best to look at the full picture before making your final decision.

Either way, take care of yourself first, your immediate family next (husband/wife/kids), your extended  family (parents/siblings) and then friends.  Because whatever your decision is it will effect those around you in that order.

Take care of yourself.  Keep happy and healthy.  Try to be understanding, but don't be put into situations that cause stress or strife.  Those will make you ill.

Take care all.

No Worries

SKO!


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